HOW TO BE A BOYFRIEND.credit to A N D R A.i like the this one!
steps
- Girls do not like guys who constantly lie to impress them. Tell the truth and you'll never have to worry about getting caught in a lie.
- Be protective, but not overprotective. Don't control her every move.
- Make an effort to get along with her friends. Be friendly, but do not make it seem like you're flirting with them. Your girlfriend could easily be hurt by this.
- Avoid fights, arguments, and disagreements with her friends! Most girls will put friendships before relationships.
- Always tell her that she is the only girl in your life. She knows that family members don't count.
- Make sure she always feels good about herself. Many girls are insecure, but simple reassurances ("Your hair looks just fine.") are often all they need.
- Let her make important decisions, like where to go on a date.. If she asks you to decide, just decide quickly and stick with your choice..
- Treat her well in front of your friends. Don't ignore her. Respect the fact that girls need to hang out with their girl-friends without being jealous.
- Compliment her often so that she knows that you're still interested in her.
- Tell her she looks beautiful when she's clearly made an effort (like at prom). Tell her she's beautiful when she clearly hasn't (like when she's just woken up).
- Make sure she's always smiling. Try to cheer her up when she's sad about little things. For emotions like grief, it's best to simply be there for her.
- Don't try to make her jealous, or suggest that she may be jealous.
- Don't compete with her very often. Girls like to think they're right.
- Bring her some of her favorite flowers. Respect the fact that she won't carry them around all day.
- Be romantic, but not cliche.
- Don't get into fights. Girls won't see you as a protector, they will see you as an aggressor.
- Don't tell her you think other girls are hot, even if she asks your opinion.
- Let her play with your hair, even if she's messing it up.
- Don't be jealous about her exes.. She's with you, not with them.
- In the same way, don't make her jealous of your exes. Keep conversations about them to an absolute minimum.
- Don't embarrass her.
- Don't pressure her.
- Don't tease her about her clothes.
- Never call her fat, even if she's obese. Tell her you love her woman curves.
- Don't tell her to get off your lap. Let your leg fall asleep.
- Listen to her music even if it's rubbish and you can't stand it.
- Listen to her speak, even if the topic is boring. After a bit, gently change the subject.
- Don't let your friends pick on her. Stick up for her, even if they are only kidding!
- "No" always means no. Even when you think it doesn't.
- If she offers to pay for lunch, let her and don't make it a big deal. Equality is important.
- Try to do something you both love to do, so that relationships don't seem a drag to you.
- Tell her you've been thinking about her all day.
- Kiss her on the forehead and on top of her head, especially when she is feeling down, and always say a simple 'I love you'. It will make her happy. (NOTE: See tip on saying "I love you").
- Remember that no matter who, no matter when, any guy has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet. No woman wakes up saying, "God, I hope I don't get swept off my feet today!" You just have to get on the right path.
- If you are sitting down somewhere like the park or if you are leaning up against something, usually the girl will eventually become comfortable and lean/lay on you.. If she lays on you with her stomach facing up, you should take one of her hands and pull it to her opposite side...do the same with the other.
- If you are laying out under the stars MAKE SURE YOU HOLD HER HAND!!!!! And if she says somethin like, "Im cold," make sure u scoot closer to her.
- When watching a movie, make sure you are sitting with her and if she lays on you, do the same thing i described in number 1. Tips: if she cries and she leans ur head on ur shoulder, lean your head on hers. IF SHE CRIES DONT KISS HER UNLESS YOU ARE SURE SHE WANTS TO!!!
- Don't tell her to look up 'How To Be a Good Girlfriend' its insulting and rude and she'll tell her friends and they will probably say something along the lines of 'Wow you should break up with him he's being mean'
- When she is venting about something (whether its about her life or about your relationship) don't turn it into something about you. She's just telling you her feelings.
- Don't be afraid of kissing her in public.
- Tell her bedtime stories
- MAKE THE FIRST MOVE BECAUSE SHE'S EXPECTING YOU TO.
- Talk about your future with her, if it's what you both want.
tips
- Hug her in public
- Don't ever tell her that you love her unless you mean it all the way with all your heart, especially if you just started dating. You might scare her!
- Girls are always right.
- Be yourself, she will find out who you really are at some point anyway
- Treat her the same way you would want to be treated
- Protect her
- If you find out she is sick, do everything in your power and go check on her. Take her anything she wants or needs. Girls love it when their man takes care of them when they are helpless and sick.
- Make sure you tell her that you "never want to lose her, ever" That will make her laugh and smile.
- Tell her that you will never "let her go"
- When she is sad, go out of your way to cheer her up
- Give her your jacket if she's cold, or even better, hold her close so she doesn't feel bad for taking yours.
- Call her sweet names when you see she's feeling down.
- Make sure you always ALWAYS make time for her.
- Let her know she comes first.
- Make up silly jokes with her. Be totally honest.
- Tell her embarrassing things that have happened to you. Open up. If it's love she won't dump you for it.
- Be true to her, and if an ex is brought up, tell her you don't want anything to do with your ex, and that she's the only girl for you.
- If someone whistles at her, or gives her the eye, don't say "I'm going to go beat them up." Simply say, "Hey, I don't blame 'em." And let it go. Just don't let things get out of hand.
- During a first date they might want a first kiss. but don't make it big or anything. That might be her first kiss and she wont know how that well.
- If she is a bad kisser, don't let her know. Don't get mad or show any disappointment even if you have some, realize that might have been her first try.
- Let her pig out. If she's hungry, buy her food.
- Tell her your parents like her. It's always nice to know the parents like the other.
- Always make sure she's happy. If something seems wrong, hug her, hold her close, and don't let her go until she tells you. Not in the mean kind of way, though.
- Let her know she's right when she is.
- Try looking at other wikiHow about guys and see what women like in men.
- Don't constantly poke and touch her. Girls hate that.
- Compliment her daily,girls love this*
- Ask her how her day was.They will feel important in your life,and it will usually make their day.*
- Tease her a little just to have fun, just know when to STOP!
- Try to learn about your girl so you don't do anything she wouldn't like, but try to do it without appearing nosy.
- Make sure to say what you feel when you feel it. Girls really appreciate it and makes them feel good.
- One thing that girls like complimented, is their shoes. If they bought new shoes, compliment on how good they are. But don't do it every time she comes out with new shoes, or she'll know you're lying.
- If you and your girlfriend are very close and have a lot of the same friends, don't be afraid to stand up for her, even if your best friend says something mean to her and doesn't even mean it. I experienced this today so don't think I'm makin this up!!!
- Make sure that she knows you really do lover her and she will love you back♥♥♥
- telling a girl that you like kids can some times help...but if you dont DONT say it
boyfriends, thnx for me,
a n d r a
a n d r a
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